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Happy Birthday to my number 1, the Delilah to my Hey There, the W to my TF, my best friend in the whole world, my Deluna. These past few year have been amazing and dumb and drunk and full of things I couldn’t have imagined ever happening. Everyone might hate us but I can’t think of anyone else I would have rather spend time with❤️ I love you, happy birthday, and may the next year of your life be better and even more bad ass 😘😘😘

Happy Birthday to my number 1, the Delilah to my Hey There, the W to my TF, my best friend in the whole world, my Deluna. These past few year have been amazing and dumb and drunk and full of things I couldn’t have imagined ever happening. Everyone might hate us but I can’t think of anyone else I would have rather spend time with❤️ I love you, happy birthday, and may the next year of your life be better and even more bad ass 😘😘😘

— 8 minutes ago
http://monicaspeaceofmind.tumblr.com/post/83584882165/stupidswampwitch-masooood-safeidgul-why →

stupidswampwitch:

masooood:

safeidgul:

Why can’t there be a male hooter’s equivalent where male servers are shirtless and highly sexualized for their bodies and looks

Male Strip clubs. You’re thinking of male strip clubs.

No. Not a male strip club. A strip club is a…

— 8 hours ago with 42047 notes
fuckyeahsexeducation:

katelucia:

Jada Pinkett-Smith is aware of the critics that frown up their noses at the way she raises her daughter, Willow. Willow cuts, dyes and styles her hair as she pleases, a fact that bothers many who feel girls shouldn’t have that much control over their appearance at such a young age.
Jada decided to address the criticism in a Facebook post:

“A letter to a friend…This subject is old but I have never answered it in its entirety. And even with this post it will remain incomplete. The question why I would LET Willow cut her hair. First the LET must be challenged. This is a world where women, girls are constantly reminded that they don’t belong to themselves; that their bodies are not their own, nor their power or self determination. I made a promise to endow my little girl with the power to always know that her body, spirit and her mind are HER domain. Willow cut her hair because her beauty, her value, her worth is not measured by the length of her hair. It’s also a statement that claims that even little girls have the RIGHT to own themselves and should not be a slave to even their mother’s deepest insecurities, hopes and desires. Even little girls should not be a slave to the preconceived ideas of what a culture believes a little girl should be.”



I’m pretty sure I’ve reblogged this before but seriously this is something we should be teaching all our children. Their bodies are theirs, not ours as parents. As soon as you tell someone their body doesn’t belong to theirs you take away so much from them.

fuckyeahsexeducation:

katelucia:

Jada Pinkett-Smith is aware of the critics that frown up their noses at the way she raises her daughter, Willow. Willow cuts, dyes and styles her hair as she pleases, a fact that bothers many who feel girls shouldn’t have that much control over their appearance at such a young age.

Jada decided to address the criticism in a Facebook post:

“A letter to a friend…This subject is old but I have never answered it in its entirety. And even with this post it will remain incomplete. The question why I would LET Willow cut her hair. First the LET must be challenged. This is a world where women, girls are constantly reminded that they don’t belong to themselves; that their bodies are not their own, nor their power or self determination. I made a promise to endow my little girl with the power to always know that her body, spirit and her mind are HER domain. Willow cut her hair because her beauty, her value, her worth is not measured by the length of her hair. It’s also a statement that claims that even little girls have the RIGHT to own themselves and should not be a slave to even their mother’s deepest insecurities, hopes and desires. Even little girls should not be a slave to the preconceived ideas of what a culture believes a little girl should be.”

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I’m pretty sure I’ve reblogged this before but seriously this is something we should be teaching all our children. Their bodies are theirs, not ours as parents. As soon as you tell someone their body doesn’t belong to theirs you take away so much from them.

(via polishedinpajamas)

— 11 hours ago with 242556 notes
Apparently, We Need To Remind People That Pro-Choice Women Are Allowed To Have Babies →

polishedinpajamas:

legally-bitchtastic:

choosechoice:

I get this all the fucking time. We’re pro-choice. That means choosing to keep, abort or adopt. Not pro-abort-everything-always. I’ve had unplanned pregnancies and kept them.We’re pro-do-what-is-right-for-you. 

I want to slap them all with a thesaurus.

Those tweets are horrible and miss the entire point of being pro-choice.
It just means that you believe the government shouldn’t be involved in a woman’s very personal choice to keep, adopt, or abort a fetus.
You can still personally feel like you would never make the choice to abort because you want kids.
You can still personally feel like you would never keep a fetus because you don’t want a child.
Your CHOICE. You just respect every woman’s right to have one. That’s the point.
Also, congratulations to Chelsea.

— 11 hours ago with 507 notes
#memorymonday

#memorymonday

— 1 day ago
#memorymonday 
"

1. When you cut yourself, clean and bandage it.

2. Do not start smoking cigarettes because the boy who broke your heart does.

3. When you want to kill yourself, don’t.

4. Cutting calories doesn’t do anything but make you unhappy.

5. If the number on the scale rises, throw it out.

6. The first girl you ever “date” is going to call the police on you even though she lives three thousand miles away, because you’re going to tell her that you’re not in a good mental state shortly after you’ve “broken up”.

7. When you want to kill yourself, don’t.

8. Break up with the boy who says, “You had a sexy phase!” when you tell him that you’ve dated a girl before.

9. Dating your friends is not always the best idea, but you can still be friends after you’ve broken up with her.

10. Your mother will try to become your best friend because you’re leaving for college soon. Let her.

11. When you want to kill yourself, don’t.

12. Your closest friend will stop talking to you when you leave for college.

13. It’s okay to cry.

14. When you want to kill yourself, don’t.

15. When you cut yourself again, clean and bandage it. Do not be ashamed.

16. Your anxiety is going to try and control your entire life. Tell it to shut the hell up, because you’re trying to live and that task is hard enough as it is.

17. The past has a funny way of coming back in the form of you developing a crush on another friend.

18. Try not to hate yourself for breaking up with your boyfriend.

19. If you’re still smoking, apologize silently to your mother.

20. When you want to kill yourself, don’t.

"
— 4 days ago with 67677 notes
wickedclothes:

Wicked Clothes presents our latest item: the ‘Don’t Lose Sleep’ Sweater!
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wickedclothes:

Wicked Clothes presents our latest item: the ‘Don’t Lose Sleep’ Sweater!

Lions don’t lose sleep over the opinions of sheep.

Lions also get to use coupon code ‘SHIPFREE’ to get free shipping on all domestic orders! Buy one now!

— 4 days ago with 1482 notes

Atlanta trip booked, next up Iowa and Chicago trip then Toronto ❤️

— 4 days ago

If you fight like a married couple, talk like best friends, flirt like first lovers, and protect each other like siblings, then you were meant to be.

(Source: little-greysanatomy, via polishedinpajamas)

— 4 days ago with 785 notes
"Too many young girls don’t know how to act when someone’s being inappropriate with them. They giggle or they try to brush it off. Don’t do that. Tell them to go fuck themselves - be a bitch. If someone’s being disrespectful to you, be disrespectful right back. Show them the same amount of respect that they show you."
Wise words from my mom  (via makeyoubeleive)

Yes.

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(Source: swindleofficial, via jaileelove7)

— 5 days ago with 571779 notes